Ten were in transition, separated, or divorced. They will create an internal narrative for themselves, which sometimes borders on delusion to resist change, avoid loss and not take any risks. To rate and review, sign in. He hides his true self, when there is no need to. Many marriages have been hurriedly terminated when couples and their therapists have lacked the information they needed to understand their current situations.
Hi Ruby, Good to hear that your husband has commenced treatment.
How helping my husband discover he’s gay helped me let go
This book provides the clarity, describes the choices, and in many cases offers hope for relationships and marriages that have been brushed off as doomed. As challenging as that time was, we grew as individuals and as a family. I hope that he responds well. As far as our situation goes i think we have turned a corner today. I noted you live in a small country town. I would like it if you came back and talked some more.
Clinicians who work with couples will turn again and again to this book for answers to this contemporary quandary as more and more couples struggle with the boundaries of male sexuality. Kids have been helping, which has been great to see they still support him no matter the circumstances. I am not concerned about him being faithful, as he is not attracted to women, or primarily attracted to men atm. Relationships Australia would be good. One Saturday morning last fall, my marriage ended before I even had a chance to finish my coffee. For decades, husbands and wives have faced the social tendency to shame, fear, and denounce husbands who have sex with men.